24+ against 1

Anonymous said:
I took the liberty to perform a root-cause-analysis on your decision to end your blog. Conclusions were easily drawn. 1st: It sucks not having your blog around. Secondly: how am I going to keep track of you? Last but not least: click on your 'personal' tag and read the multitude of comments of your readers.

I for one could do without the famous model posts and want to have a sneak-peek into your life, it's a bit voyeuristic and that I thrive on, so appear to do the majority of all the visitors with whom you seem to have pleasant conversations.

Concluding: what if you blog a bit more about you and your pink dogs, stuffed animals, your cats, your stunningly handsome boyfriend, your stunningly beautiful sister, whatever muses you, and just throw in a tasteful nude every once in a while rather than ever so often? It may be a bit more rewarding that way, if acknowledgement is what you need to keep the boat rocking, although I think it's not your ulterior motive. You are created to share beauty, so by all means, share! I do not seem to be a lone soul in my ponderings, given the fact that the virtual tears shed here can fill a bassin. Why not take the above into consideration?

Love, Godspeed and wise decisions lay ahead.

XOXO
September 8, 2009 2:25 AM

I really thought this comment was written by Peter, since it just summed up all the things I said to him the night before this was posted. But it wasn't Peter, the writer will remain anonymous, although I have the feeling it must be a regular on here that really knows me.

I ended this blog abrubtly last weekend for all the reasons written in the above statement. I felt more and more anonymous in the blogger-community. My blog became more and more a shallow blog on male beauty and I really didn't bother anymore. Sure, I like my beautiful hunks, but it wasn't rewarding anymore, since most of my post were done simultaniously by other blogs.

So I gave it some thought and I will continue. But in a different direction. More Peter, Nel and me. More games. More design. More Madonna. But most of all, a more relaxed blog, which doesn't have to live up to the 30+ posts a week. I decided to stop blogging for the lack of comments. But who can blame my readers? Why comment on all these hunks you see everywhere else?

First things first; gonna make a new logo tomorrow and maybe I'll change the looks of my blog. I don't wanna open another one. These 2491 posts I did in the last 1,5 years became way too important to me.

So check back soon for more Zephyr-Files. And sorry to all the 24 people who I scared the hell out on here plus all the concerned Facebook people.

Daan